Socialite and businesswoman Vera Sidika has sparked mixed reactions online after claiming that some Kenyan men secretly envy their own women, especially those who are successful.
In a strongly worded statement posted on her Instagram stories, Vera said jealousy is not just among strangers but also exists within romantic relationships.
“Some Kenyan men are jealous of women, especially successful women,” Vera wrote. “Some men are even jealous of their own girlfriends and wives. Yes, it happens. There’s jealousy in relationships btw,” she added.
Her post has triggered a heated online debate, with many agreeing while others felt offended. Vera, known for her boldness and outspoken nature, did not hold back in expressing her thoughts.
She stated that some men feel threatened when their female partners start earning more, gaining fame, or becoming independent.
“Instead of supporting their women to shine, some men start competing with them. It’s toxic,” she said.
A few netizens backed her sentiments, saying they had experienced similar jealousy in their own relationships. One lady commented, “I got a promotion and my boyfriend became distant. He felt like I didn’t need him anymore.”
However, critics accused Vera of generalizing and attacking Kenyan men unfairly. Others claimed that success can be intimidating to anyone, regardless of gender.
Vera Sidika, who recently made headlines for her return to social media after a short break, has always embraced controversy.
She now joins a growing list of female celebrities who are using their platforms to talk about gender dynamics, self-worth, and toxic relationships.
Whether one agrees with her or not, Vera’s comments have opened up an important conversation about insecurity, masculinity, and the challenges successful women face in relationships.
